This is the tragedy of thousands of people all over the world, which goes on before our eyes, even at this very moment. Sounds like a compliment, a praise, or something to be proud of, but in fact it's a very heartbreaking status:
-Hey watch your language next to the lady!
-Who? Emily? Don't worry she is 'one of us' already, right Broette?
Poor Emily, obviuosly you are into one of the guys in the group. Just to be closer to him, you need to pretend to be one of them, embrace their rules and speak their 'bro' language. But don't you see you are slowly turning into a 'dude'? You think that the guy you like would be interested in a dude? Why do you let them call you 'one of us' just to be part of the team? You think it's cool to be dude?
Poor girl, I know the thoughts inside your head. I can hear your silent screams every time they put on a imaginary penis on your body and you pretend to be okay with it. I know that every time they call you 'one of us', something dies inside you, or a flower withers away.
Don't do that, please don't let them fill testosterone in your body, don't be one of them, don't say 'bros before hoes' when they burp to your face. You are becoming a man!