Woman Who Has Slept With 10,000 Men Wrote A Book That Explains What Men Really Want


Gwyneth Montenegro is a former sex worker and she’s currently undergoing a career change. She says she has slept with 10,000 men, and now exactly knows what men want. She explains it all in her book called “10, 000 Men and Counting”.

Gwyneth, now 39, first got paid for sex at the age of 21.


... only three years after a horrific gang rape completely changed the course of her life.

Now retired, she doesn’t regret her 12 years in the business and is now a published author...


...who hopes she can help women improve their relationships with the opposite sex.

First of all, as opposed to what you might think, most men are not into that kinky stuff at all, Gwyneth says.


“A lot of them don’t want all this hardcore kinky sex. That’s such a small percentage of the men. I was in the industry for 12 years — that’s a long time. But I didn’t see a lot of the men that had these sick fantasies. Most of it was just normal sex.”

So they're all a bit vanilla basically, which is… interesting.

She goes on to claim that these men who pay for sex are not just looking for that instant gratification and physical pleasure, they want a psychological thrill.

Gwyneth explains:


“It’s more than just sex. There’s always a psychological motivation for sex, it’s not just a physical urge. A lot of the clients would be an hour plus and sure, they wanted sex, but a big part of my job was just talking.”

And ultimately she concludes that men want to feel masculine and dominant in a relationship and in the bedroom.


“That man feels emasculated in his relationship, he wants to feel masculine again. They’re seeking validity for their virility. Virility is very important to men. There’s also a group of men who want to play the game. They get an intense delight out of controlling women.”

There’s no doubt that this is a fascinating insight into the workings of the sex industry and what men as clients really want.


But of course, it’s up to you to decide whether to translate these tips to a functioning relationship. 

Source: UNILAD

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