Why, why, why? Why is it so exciting for two people to hook up behind closed doors? What makes people cheat on their partners and why do some people just hide their relationships? Well, again, science saves the day. Let's see what science has to say to about these questions!
In fact, the underlying answer is somewhat certain: confidentiality.
New relationship, new adventure.
According to a research (Schmiedeberg and Schröder, 2016), sexual satisfaction peaks in the first year of sexual intercourse and starts to decline from this time.
Don't think that it's just a fear of being discovered.
According to a survey (Dutton and Aron, 1974), people who are in fear (for example, when crossing a high and swinging bridge) found the potential partners near them more attractive.
It is a fact: sharing secrets increases the intensity of intimacy and relationship.
The more authentic and big the mystery the partners share, the more exciting and engaging the relationship becomes.