40+ Questions to Ask a Girl You Like that will Help You Get to Know Her Better

Even before you start looking at the list of questions below, pretty sure you already have a girl in mind. Otherwise, why would you be here, right? But if you do not have a girl you like yet, it is still always great to come prepared.

There are a lot of things that you could ask a girl but it is kind of difficult to narrow things down especially if you are put on-the-spot. Here are a few questions to ask the girl you like so you can get to know her more.

This list includes:

• Basic questions

• Questions about likes and hobbies

• Deep questions

• Questions about relationships and intimacy

Now, be careful when you ask a girl some of these basic questions. You would not want to sound like an interviewer for a job, right? Just be chill, try to answer the questions yourself too especially if she asks.

• What’s your complete name?

• Do you have a big family?

• What’s your biggest academic achievement?

• What is your dream job?

• When is your birthday?

• How do you celebrate your birthday?

• How has your week been?

• Have you been here before?

• Have you lived in the area for a long time?

• Do you use social media?

Since you already know the most basic things about her. It’s time to step it up and see if you two have anything in common. Who knows, she might be your next travel buddy or teammate!

• Is there a book you could read numerous times without ever growing tired of it?

• Would you rather spend the night playing video games or board games?

• Do you collect anything?

• Did you play sports as a kid?

• Have you traveled much (or do you want to)?

• What’s your ultimate travel destination?

• What’s your favorite movie of all time?

• What’s on the top of your bucket list right now?

• When you go to an amusement park are you there for the rides, snacks, or both?

• Would you rather spend the night playing video games or board games?

Once you’ve covered the basics and the casual topics, then it’s time to move on to the more serious ones. With these questions, it’s easier to see if you have the same values as the girl you like.

• Would you describe yourself as a spiritual person? And if so, how does it shape your life?

• What’s been your biggest mistake and what did you learn from it?

• Who’s been the biggest influence on your life and decisions?

• What motivates you the most?

• When you were little, what did you want to do when you “grow up”?

• If you could change one thing about your personality, what would it be?

• What gives you the most adrenaline?

• How often do you see your good friends?

• How important is family to you?

• What’s your worst habit?

Now, if you’re feeling a bit more confident talking to the girl you like, gauge whether you’re ready to get a bit more intimate with her. Intimacy may or may come immediately, but it’s always a good thing to come in ready.

• What’s your favorite love language? (Touch, gifts, words, etc.)

• What’s your dream date?

• When was the last time someone made you blush?

• What makes you feel safe and protected when you’re with a man?

• What’s your favorite romantic memory from your past?

• What’s one intimate secret you’ve never told anyone?

• What’s one romantic gesture a man could use that would excite you?

• How do you know when you’ve found someone special?

• Do you ever make the first move?

• What actions do you consider to be too clingy or possessive?

Being ready to spark a conversation is always a good sign of confidence. But remember, dating is always a step-by-step process. Take your time in knowing the girl you like. Love is never rushed.