We are shedding light on the future of a relationship where the 'cheatee' forgives the cheater thinking that "Love conquers everything" and decides to go on.
16 Things To Happen In A Relationship That Experienced Cheating!
1. The relationship starts to navigate on a tense wire.
2. The person who has been 'forgiven' has a very limited space, every action they do is questioned.
3. The incident is mentioned in every argument, no matter how relevant or irrelevant the initial argument is.
4. The jealousy has changed dimension, the intensity raises and is supported by new instruments.
5. The thought that this will be forgotten one day is just ridiculous, there is no way it will be forgotten, ever, not even if the world stops turning.
6. Insecurity, suspicion, and anger turn into the basic dynamics of the relationship, and it is more than obvious that none of these emotions are pleasant.
7. This relationship is unfortunately not sustainable. It goes on with temporary fixes but it is meant to end at a point.
However, sometimes things can also go differently.
8. The cheating and the forgiving process that follows might strengthen the relationship.
9. With the feeling of being in peace with oneself that the person who forgives has, and the gratefulness of the cheater, it is possible that a strong bond forms once these two people come together again.
10. Additionally, the feeling of loss that the cheater experiences, may cause that person to never ever attempt the same thing.
11. New and stronger love bonds form between these couples and the relationship recovers from this by becoming stronger.
12. The nature of cheating is also an important factor at this point: the genuine and deep regret that follows affects the relationship much less.
13. However, if feelings for the third person are also included, the cheating leaves deeper scars.
14. Even though the relationship somehow goes on, it is impossible that the cheating doesn't cause any damage.
15. Sometimes this situation can manifest itself as not being able to forgive oneself and self-hatred and hurt the cheater.
16. Eventually, regardless of forgiving, 'cheating' leaves scars on people.
And the future of a relationship of two wounded people depends on how they deal with these wounds.
