Divorced İrem Helvacıoğlu and Bengü Hint at “Narcissist” Exes!
The world of celebrity news is buzzing once again. Both İrem Helvacıoğlu and Bengü, who have been the talk of the town due to their divorce proceedings and subsequent moves, have now caught attention with a shared detail. The fact that both of them liked a video on 'narcissism' by Clinical Psychologist and Family Counselor Ayla Akyüz sparked speculation on social media, with people wondering, 'Is this a veiled message to their ex-spouses?' Let's dive into the details together.
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One of the recent breakups that has made a significant impact on the entertainment news is the split between İrem Helvacıoğlu and Ural Kaspar.
The divorce of the couple, who ended their 1.5-year marriage in a single session, was discussed at length even though it was 'mutual'. The protocol allegations about the custody and surname of their daughter, Sora, particularly drew attention. It was claimed that Helvacıoğlu renounced his demand for alimony and compensation, and in return, gave his daughter his own surname.
On the other hand, Bengü had also ended her marriage to her husband of six years, Selim Selimoğlu, in a single session in 2024. The separation of the couple, who have two children, also took place within the framework of a 'mutual agreement'. While Bengü attributed the reason for the separation to differences of opinion, rumors circulated for a long time that prolonged physical distance had worn down the relationship.
Although both individuals ended their marriages in a calm and formal manner, they remained in the spotlight with their subsequent posts and statements.
Irem Helvacıoğlu and Bengü, previously discussed in relation to their divorce proceedings, have once again captured the spotlight with a move they made on social media.
The fact that both members of the duo liked a video shared by a psychologist about narcissistic personalities did not go unnoticed by keen observers.
This detail, which quickly spread, was interpreted by users as a possible jab at their ex-spouses. Particularly, the fact that both had recently divorced made this like even more significant.
Clinical Psychologist and Family Counselor Ayla Akyüz's post, titled 'Narcissist and Money: Everything is a Tool' was liked by both İrem Helvacıoğlu and Bengü. The post read:
'For narcissists, money is not just a necessity; it's power, control, a sense of superiority. That's why they know no bounds in their pursuit of it. Emotions, relationships, morals, past ties... None of these are sacred. All can be sacrificed when necessary.
A narcissist can take on countless roles to obtain money:
One day they play the victim, another day the lover.
One day they're fragile, the next day the savior.
They make you feel like they're the 'only safe haven,' then tighten the chain that binds you to that haven.
But the goal is never you.
The goal is what you give, provide, carry.
They want to keep you at their disposal for money.
They feed you with hope to get to the money.
They make you feel guilty to avoid losing the money.
And they do all this without a hint of embarrassment. Because for a narcissist, conscience only exists as far as it serves them. While you're worn out, they've already started rehearsing for a new role.
Remember:
A narcissist never forms bonds, they create chains.
They don't love, they possess.
They don't share, they use.
If at some point they say, 'I've changed, I'm not the same anymore,'
'I finally understand,' they say,
'Help me one last time,' they say...
Know that this is not awareness, it's strategy.
The most dangerous thing is:
Believing in their potential.
Because a narcissist doesn't change, they just change their methods.
True freedom is not seeing their mask, but seeing their game.
And once you see their game, they can no longer play with you.
Protecting yourself is not selfishness.
Walking away is not cruelty.
Silently withdrawing is the strongest response.
You are not a resource.
You are a person, a value, a set of boundaries.
Healing begins not when you forget this, but when you remember.'
The action of İrem Helvacıoğlu and Bengü liking this post was perceived as a message to their ex-spouses.
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